Rebuild your identity. Reclaim your power. Rewrite your future.

You didn’t think this would be the thing to break you.

You’ve carried teams. Led companies. Held families together.
You’ve made million-dollar decisions before lunch.
But somehow… this? This divorce?
It’s the thing that cracked you.

No one sees it.
You still show up. You still execute.
But behind the wheel, in the kitchen, lying awake at night — it’s a different story.
You’re unraveling. Quietly. Constantly.

You’ve lost control.
Not just of the process — the lawyers, the parenting plan, the home, the finances.
But of yourself.

You’ve become reactive.
Triggered by everything and nothing.
You can’t sleep. You scroll. You numb. You push harder.
And you hate that none of it’s working.
You hate that this is who you are right now.

You’re scared.
Not of the divorce — but of what it’s doing to you.
You feel like a stranger in your own skin.

And here’s what no one tells you:
This has nothing to do with your ex.
This is about you.
Your emotional intelligence.
Your identity.
Your ability to lead yourself when everything else falls apart.

And that — is the work we do here.

What if this breakdown was never meant to destroy you —
but to expose the version of you that’s been buried for decades?

What if you didn’t just survive this divorce...
but used it to become the most powerful, magnetic, clear, and fully expressed version of yourself?

Because here's the truth:
You know there’s more.
More freedom. More purpose. More peace. More you.

The person you’ve always known you could be —
the one who doesn’t second-guess, doesn’t shrink,
doesn’t pretend to have it together because they actually do —
that version is still in there. Waiting.

And every day you don’t do the work to become that version?
You waste time in a life you’ve already outgrown.

This isn’t about recovery. This is about reclamation.

In Freedom After Divorce, we don’t play at the surface.
We go all the way in —
into your identity, your emotional blueprint, your conditioning, your belief systems.
We clear it all.

So that the next time someone sees you, they don’t just say you’ve “bounced back.”
They don’t recognize you at all.
They feel you.

And you? You feel home in your own body for the first time in your life.

So I’ll ask you this:
Why wait?
Why spend one more day stuck in the version of yourself that isn’t working —
when you could start becoming who you were created to be today?

Because if you’re honest… you’re already craving it.

Everyone else is handing out band-aids —
Tips. Affirmations. Therapy scripts. Empty encouragement.

You’ve already tried all that.
You’ve outgrown it.
It’s not that you’re broken — it’s that you’ve been handed the wrong tools.

The Freedom After Divorce Method is not another process to talk about your pain.
It’s the only method designed to dismantle the version of you built on performance, pressure, and survival…
and rebuild you from the inside out.

We go where others won’t:
Into the emotional root system that’s running your life on autopilot.
Into the conditioning that’s been suffocating your truth for decades.
Into the identity crisis that’s been masked by success, leadership, and reputation.

You’ll learn the emotional intelligence skills no one ever taught you —
how to lead yourself when no one else can,
how to calm the war inside your head,
how to stop self-abandoning when pressure hits.

This is where we strip it all down —
so you can finally rebuild with precision, power, and peace.

Because when your internal world is rebuilt,
everything on the outside shifts to match.

Why This Program, Why Now?

You’ve tried the podcasts.
You’ve read the books.
You’ve sat on the counselor’s couch hoping something would finally click.

But here you are. Still awake at 2 a.m. with your heart racing and your thoughts spiraling.
Still functioning on the outside while quietly unraveling inside.

The truth? You don’t need more talk.
You need transformation.
And you need it now — not someday, not “after things calm down,” not once the dust settles.
Because if you keep waiting, this version of you — the one you know you were born to be — will keep getting pushed down under the weight of survival.

Freedom After Divorce™ is not therapy. It’s not fluff.
This is an emotional re-coding process — designed to give you back your edge, your identity, and your life.

If you’re tired of circling the drain of survival and ready to finally rebuild from power, this is the moment.
There is no Plan B. There is no better time.
The cost of staying stuck is higher than you think — in productivity, in relationships, in your health, in your legacy.

This is the place where you finally get to become who you were always meant to be.

What’s Included in Freedom After Divorce™

This 8-week experience is designed for high-level leaders who are done circling the same emotional cul-de-sac and are ready for actual, lasting change. Here’s how we deliver it:

8 Weeks of Deep Emotional Rebuilding

Each week unlocks a core pillar of emotional intelligence and identity restoration — strategically designed to shift you from survival to self-command.

You won’t just feel better — you’ll become better: in how you lead, how you love, and how you live.

Bi-Weekly Group Coaching Calls

Get the high-touch clarity you need without sitting in another draining therapy session. These aren’t fluff-filled lectures. They’re laser-focused breakthrough calls led by Brenda Lee to create shifts on the spot.

Expect a safe, confidential, unfiltered space where real leaders get real support.

Exclusive Audio Library & Tools Vault

Because the work doesn’t just happen on the calls — it happens in the car, in the hallway, in the meeting, in the kitchen. Get private access to:

  • Grounding rituals to start and end your day in power

  • Emotional regulation strategies for triggered moments

  • Reset tools for instant mindset recalibration

These tools go where your therapist can’t — into your real life.

Freedom After Divorce™ Workbook

A private roadmap to document your transformation, track your growth, and create clarity around who you're becoming. This is your proof of progress.

What You’ll Walk Away With

By the end of 8 weeks inside the Freedom After Divorce Method, you won’t just feel “a little better.” You’ll walk away with:

  • Unshakable Self-Leadership
    The ability to lead yourself — emotionally, mentally, energetically — no matter the chaos around you.

  • A Clear Personal Identity
    Not the version shaped by your ex, your title, or your paycheck. The real you — finally uncovered.

  • Real Emotional Intelligence Tools
    Not fluffy affirmations. Tactical, in-the-moment tools that work in real life — in the car, on the call, in the courtroom.

  • A Nervous System That’s Finally Regulated
    You won’t just think differently. You’ll feel it in your body. The anxiety. The spiral. The short fuse. You’ll know how to reset yourself in minutes.

  • Reclaimed Energy, Clarity, and Control
    The fog lifts. The “I’m stuck” paralysis dissolves. You show up present — with your kids, your team, your decisions, and yourself.

  • A Compelling Future You’re Excited to Build
    You’ll stop surviving your life and start architecting one that actually fits. Hobbies. Desires. Passions. Possibility.

Who This Is (and is not) For…

This isn’t therapy.
This isn’t fluff.
This is for the high-functioning, emotionally exhausted individual who’s secretly wondering how long they can keep holding it together.

This is for you if…

  • You’re afraid your team, your kids, or your colleagues will start to notice that the person who “has it all handled” is slipping — and you don’t know how to stop it.

  • You’re not broken, but you feel broken — and that scares you more than anything.

  • You’ve lost your edge — you’re still showing up, still succeeding, but you know it’s not your full capacity anymore. You know you’re operating at 50%.

  • You’re haunted by the idea that this divorce might permanently change you — and not for the better.

  • You’re terrified of choosing the wrong person again — but even more terrified that you’ll never feel deeply seen, chosen, or safe again.

  • You’ve forgotten what you want. You blank out when asked about your dreams. You know how to survive but have no clue how to rebuild.

  • You’re exhausted from holding it in — the rage, the guilt, the shame, the loss. And you’ve told no one. Because you're the one everyone else leans on.

  • You want truth, tools, and transformation — not another damn journaling exercise or “positive thought.”

    This is where you rebuild, not from who the world told you to be, but from who you actually are — and who you’ve never been allowed to become.

This is NOT for you if…

  • You’re looking for someone to nod and validate you without challenging you.

  • You’re addicted to your story and still waiting for your ex to change before you can.

  • You want a “safe space” that keeps you safe from change.

  • You’re not willing to face yourself — fully — and do the deep emotional excavation required.

  • You think time will heal it. (It won’t. Action will.)

Meet Your Guide – Brenda Lee

I’m not here to help you “cope.”
I’m here to help you rise from the wreckage of your divorce with more power, clarity, and fire than you’ve ever felt in your life.

I’m Brenda Lee — and I’ve been exactly where you are.

I’ve had my world blow up without warning.
I’ve screamed into pillows, cried in the car, walked into boardrooms smiling while my insides were burning.
I’ve rebuilt from scratch with kids, court papers, betrayal, and zero margin for error.

Therapy didn’t cut it.
Nine different counselors. Years wasted. Nothing shifted.

So I created what actually works. And now I guide high-performing leaders, celebrities, pro athletes, and multimillion-dollar earners through their most private hell — and into their most powerful rebirth.

I’ve been hired by Fortune 10 companies like Activision and Hewlett-Packard.
I’ve transformed the leadership development of major financial institutions.
I’ve stood on global stages speaking to elite executives.
And I’ve led clients from breakdown to brilliance with emotional intelligence as the backbone of everything I teach.

This isn’t surface-level self-help.
This is a no-bullshit, soul-realigning transformation that happens deep in your bones.

One of my clients — a multimillionaire leader — once said, “Had I not met you, I wouldn’t be alive today.”

I’m here for that level of work.
If you’re here for it too, let’s go.

This work matters. And if you're reading this, your life — and your legacy — matters too.

FAQs

  • Because this isn’t information. It’s transformation.
    Most programs dance around the real work with recycled advice and surface-level tools. I go straight to the core: emotional intelligence, identity reconstruction, and tactical, real-time tools that shift how you lead yourself — permanently.
    This is not “feel better soon” work. This is full-systems recalibration.

  • Holding it together isn’t the goal.
    Being fully alive, lit from within, grounded in your truth, and clear about who you are — that’s the goal.
    If you’re reading this, you already know: something’s cracked under the surface. You’re here for a reason. This is your signal to stop surviving and start rebuilding — for real this time.

  • That’s exactly who this is built for.
    You’re leading others. You’re handling things. But you're doing it with half your fire — and you're smart enough to know it won’t last forever.
    This program is designed to bring you back online — the version of you who knows what they’re capable of and finally lives like it.

  • Let me be blunt: you can’t afford to wait.
    Every day you stay stuck in survival mode is another day of diminished energy, fractured identity, and hidden burnout that bleeds into your leadership, parenting, dating, and inner peace.
    This is eight weeks to reclaim the next decade of your life. There’s no better ROI than that.

  • This is for humans — powerful, high-functioning individuals who are silently breaking and done pretending they're fine.
    While 86% of my clients are men, my work resonates deeply with women in executive, high-pressure roles as well.
    No matter who you are, if you’re ready for real healing and radical ownership, this space is for you.

  • If you’re asking that, you already feel it — you’re just hiding it well.
    This isn’t about being broken. It’s about being misaligned with who you really are.
    This program helps you close that gap and come home to yourself — with clarity, strength, and zero shame.

You’ve carried the weight long enough.
You’ve tried to white-knuckle your way through it — holding it together on the outside while everything inside is unraveling.

That ends here.

This is your moment to stop circling the drain…
To stop wasting time pretending you're “fine”...
To start living like the version of you that’s been buried under pain, pressure, and perfectionism.

You don’t need another coping strategy.
You need a reset — a real one.
The kind that rebuilds you from the inside out.

Choose how you want to take your next step:

Pick what fits you best:

  1. DM me “FREEDOM” on Instagram → @thebrendalee

  2. Email me directly → hello@thebrendalee.com

  3. Apply privately → [Insert Application Link]

  4. Book a 15-min Clarity Call → [Insert Calendar Link]

No pressure. No pitch. Just truth.

You already know this is for you.
Now you get to decide:
Do you keep surviving — or do you finally rise?

Take your first step now.

You know it’s time. Let’s move.