Hi, I’m Brenda lee.

I’m Not Here to Fix You. I’m Here to Help You Take the Wheel Again.

Trusted by high-performing men and women navigating emotional collapse, leadership pressure, and betrayal trauma.
Brenda Lee helps you reclaim clarity and control—without therapy or fluff.

I’m not your therapist. I’m not a hype coach.
I’m the one high performers call when everything they’ve built is burning down—and they’re still expected to lead.

I know what it means to be drowning in emotional chaos while smiling on stage.
To lead companies, teams, and families through crisis—even while silently bleeding from your own.
I’ve lived it.

I rebuilt my life after a high-conflict divorce, betrayal trauma, leadership collapse, and the gut-punch of realizing that most people you turn to for “help” are either under-trained, over-hyped, or emotionally unsafe.

So I stopped looking for someone to save me.

And I became the woman who could lead others through the fire—with clarity, strength, and unshakable peace.

my Services

Emotional Resets

Rapid emotional regulation tools for high performers who don’t do therapy.

Leadership Burnout Recovery

For executives and team leads who’ve hit emotional capacity—and can’t afford to crash.

Divorce & Betrayal Strategy

Reclaim identity and power after emotional collapse—without losing your edge.

What I Do

I work with elite professionals, founders, law enforcement, and leadership teams who are navigating invisible battles—burnout, divorce, betrayal, identity collapse, and emotional exhaustion.

Most aren’t looking for therapy. In fact they’ve tried that and it didn’t work. Clients say I’m the coach people come to when therapy fails.

They’re looking for a way to regain clarity, rebuild control, and perform at their highest level—without burning their life to the ground.

That’s what I do.

Through trauma-informed leadership tools, emotional regulation frameworks, and straight-up truth-telling, I help high performers reclaim their internal world so they can lead their external one.

Why it works

Because I combine neuroscience, somatic regulation, and leadership psychology—with zero fluff and zero performative healing.

Because I’ve trained executives inside Fortune 10 companies, led trauma-resilience for first responders, and built emotional intelligence programs used by law enforcement, founders, and top-tier teams across the country.

Because I don’t just teach this—I’ve walked it.

And I’ll never ask you to go where I haven’t been myself.

Core Beliefs

Emotional intelligence doesn’t mean weakness—it means you stop being hijacked by your own triggers.

  1. Sovereignty is the new success. If you can’t lead yourself, your life will lead you.

  2. Leadership starts with regulation. Without it, you’re a reactor, not a leader.

  3. You don’t have to be fixed (in fact I don’t believe anyone is broken). You just need tools to take your power back.

What My Clients Say

  • “I’ve done a lot of personal and professional development programs, but this was different. It didn’t just give me insight — it shifted how I lead, how I show up in hard moments, and how I recover from setbacks. This work helped me reset faster than anything I’ve tried before.”

    — Michael P., VP of Business Operations

  • “This is the kind of inner work most high achievers avoid until it’s too late. I only wish I had done it sooner. It’s clear, direct, and delivered in a way that speaks to leaders who don’t have time to waste.”

    — Rick C., Board Member

  • “Brenda’s process gives you both permission and a path forward. Whether you’re navigating a divorce, leading a team, or just trying to figure out who you are now — this work will meet you exactly where you are.”

    — Jessica P., Director of HR & Finance

  • “It pushed me to think differently and apply new tools in a way that created real results. The work ties together in a way that makes you more effective — in every area of life.”

    — Trevor H., Franchise Business Advisor

  • “It’s intense — but in the best way. The tools I walked away with have changed how I manage stress, lead conversations, and even how I parent. Highly recommend if you want to grow in any area of life.”

    — Amber T., VP of Programs

  • “Expect to be challenged. Expect to grow. If you're willing to show up and be honest, you'll walk away with a new level of clarity and emotional control — personally and professionally.”

    — Xica S., Executive Assistant

let’s get real

This work is sacred to me. I built it from the ashes of my own pain.
Now I offer it to you—not as your savior, but as your strategist.
If you’re done performing and ready to transform, let’s rebuild.
From the inside out. With clarity, control, and conviction.

Ready to Take Your Power Back?